Friday the 13th, 2020 Style
Hard to believe that it’s Friday, November 13th in this year of 2020.
Thanksgiving is in less than two weeks and it appears that our end of year holidays, so heavily invested in family, are in jeopardy.
Covid concerns are ramping up again.
Thankfully, the election has come and gone.
And lucky for us, all those celebrities we couldn’t have lived without got to stay in America.
I don’t know about you, but I would have liked to have been a fly on the wall in Bruce Springsteen’s house about 12 midnight on November 3 when Trump was posting a comeback.
But seriously, when it got right down to it, I had to remind myself…”Curt… John Legend and Chrissy Teigen are threatening to leave the country if Trump is re-elected…”
I just couldn’t imagine.
The Voice without John Legend?
That did it for me!
My Friday the 13th started a little early on the evening of Thursday the 12th. My wife had got a new gadget to cut up all those ingredients for making her potions, tinctures, and syrups.
In addition to using it for the above, I quickly determined I could use it to cut my cucumbers for my salad.
But it didn’t take me too long to learn that it works really well on fingers too.
Not wanting to waste the cucumbers I had already sliced I tried to find the lost portion of my finger amongst the cucumber slices.
“What are you doing?” my wife asked sternly as she watched me putting pressure on my bleeding finger while using my other hand to go through the cucumbers.
“Looking for my finger, I don’t want to waste my cucumbers,” I responded.
“Throw them out you are not eating them that’s disgusting!” she said loudly.
Disappointed, I threw out my cut cucumbers and the piece of my finger and focused more on controlling the bleeding.
Then I cut up another cucumber.
One day many years ago when Kim and I first moved into our house in Herndon, Donny brought home a baby wild rabbit. We had lots of rabbits in the yard back then. We don’t see too many anymore, maybe because of the foxes.
But Donny was really happy about his little rabbit and wanted to keep it as a pet. I, however, in my sometimes to a fault need to do what I think is the right thing, told him he couldn’t. It wasn’t right to keep an animal from the wild and it should be returned to its habitat I explained so very parentally.
Needless to say Donny was very disappointed and not at all happy with me.
After Donny’s accident whenever I thought about this incident with the rabbit, I always felt really bad about how I made him feel by not allowing him to keep it. Even now as I reflect back on this memory I think to myself, what a jerk, you could have loosened up a little.
A year and a half or so later, I think it was Martin Luther King’s birthday weekend 2004 when we had no kids because they had extra time off from school and they were off with their friends, I had this great idea that I thought would show I could be spontaneous and selfishly, would make up for some of the guilt I felt over denying Donny that rabbit, even though I couldn’t share it with him.
I marched Kim into a PetSmart that weekend in Tyson’s Corner, Virginia on a mission to adopt a cat.
When it was all said and done we not only adopted one cat, we adopted two.
They were sisters.
Molly and Mona.
We agreed to all the rules and requirements, not to declaw them, and to keep them as house cats. The house cat thing didn’t last long though because Mona it turned out, was like Mufasa when it came to the kingdom of our backyard. She would roam the yard and protect us from critters. Molly on the other hand enjoyed just hanging out on the deck more like her humans.
After about seven years Molly would succumb to cancer and be put down.
That left Mona alone who now could claim the inside of the house has her domain as well.
And she lived a good life.
Until today.
On this Friday the 13th Mona made her last ride to the vet after 17 years.
This year continues to be one of challenges and changes, some foreseen some unforeseen.
Like the year Donny died, for Kim and I, we just have to realize that God’s got this.
And though my little guys from Florida won’t be visiting me for Thanksgiving as planned because of the increase in virus cases, I will get through my disappointment.
And I will admit it’s a little weird without the cat meowing at us this evening, it’s nice to know Mona is interred in one of the gardens in the backyard which was her kingdom that she liked to roam so much.
And thinking and writing about elections and celebrities brings back with a smile another memory of the profound and grounding wisdom of a young boy who once reminded his Pop Pop that “Everybody in Hollywood Farts” and who also this very evening demonstrated to me very graphically through video the devastating aftermath that the different categories of hurricanes can have on the toys in his bedroom.
But let’s face it, like it or not, this is the year where you won’t find the finger in the cucumbers.
Might as well toss it out and get a new one ready to slice.
But God’s got this.
And we will continue to be held.
We will continue to find reasons to laugh in the face of sadness and turmoil, loss and distancing.
We will continue to adapt.
Because God’s got this.
And we have God.