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Bell Bottom Blues Revisited

Bell Bottom Blues Revisited

That’s me on the left in those WT Grant Jeans circa 1973.

My August 29, 1969 copy of Life Magazine came in the mail today.

The summer of 1969 was a significant one.

The Who released Tommy.

I watched Easy Rider at the Eatontown Drive-In without a car.

I watched with my immigrant Norwegian grandfather, the first man walk on the moon.

The New York Mets began their comeback that would ultimately make them World Series Champs that Fall.

Sharon Tate met Charles Manson.

The United States Gulf Coast met Hurricane Camille.

Woodstock.

And for me maybe the most important thing to happen that summer,   I got my first pair of hip hugger, bell bottom blue jeans.

WT Grant was a department store in Little Silver, New Jersey back in the 1960’s.  Little Silver was the next town over from Oceanport across the small bridge over the Oceanport Creek, then a short hop through the Army’s Fort Monmouth, and across the Little Silver Bridge.  Little Silver had Mike’s Toy Store, the Dairy King drive up ice cream, and a small WT Grant department store.

On one of those trips to WT Grant late in August, in the summer of 1969,  before school started the following week and I would begin the eighth grade,  I convinced my mother to buy me a pair of bell bottom blue jeans.  They were a little big but I didn’t care, I had my first pair of bell bottoms.

In addition to my bell bottoms that day, I also convinced my mother to buy me a copy of the Life magazine that I had picked up from the magazine rack. The one about Woodstock, with Norman Mailer on the cover, and the Manson murders inside.

I remember the ride home, flipping those pages and absorbing the photos.  Once home I spent hours in that magazine reading and imagining…me in my bell bottoms at Woodstock…the horror of the Manson murders and the beauty of Sharon Tate.

Life Magazine back in the day was big with many photos and stories.

The world as we knew it was changing in the 60’s, there was lots of turmoil, tragedy, social unrest, and scientific advancement.

Those bell bottoms signified a change in my life too.  Later that school year those jeans (along with my handmade macramé belt) would get me some trouble and would keep me out of my eighth-grade graduation until my sister could bring me new clothes.

I would wear that same pair of bell bottom jeans through the four years of high school that followed with a little help that they were big when I bought them, eventually cutting the threads out of the seams at bottoms to make them longer, and the fact that I just plain didn’t grow much from the time I was 13 until I graduated high school.

 

The world was different then, but probably really not so much different.  We still have turmoil, tragedy, social unrest, and scientific advancement now.

But back then we had magazines, now we have Facebook and Instagram.

And I don’t have hip hugger bell bottom blue jeans anymore.  But at my age and with the size of my belly I wish I did.  They would have a more practical application for me today.

 

The realization that the sun is setting sooner crept over me as I finished my ride and headed back to my truck last evening.

Just like the lift the extra daylight was in the spring that seemed so liberating,  the impending darkness as the days get shorter is signaling a change that will soon be limiting.

The summer of 2018 is coming to an end already.

But just as fast as I think this summer went, the winter months will go by too, and before I know it the days will be warmer and the sun back out longer.

Because unlike that long lazy summer of 49 years ago, that is how it seems to be now.

Time seems to move faster.

I don’t know why that is, it just does.

 

“Bell bottom blues, don’t say goodbye.
I’m sure we’re gonna meet again,
And if we do, don’t you be surprised”

(from Bell Bottom Blues by Eric Clapton and Bobby Whitlock)

Sharon Tate

Good Friday, Easter Sunday…What Did Jesus Do on Saturday?

Good Friday, Easter Sunday…What Did Jesus Do on Saturday?

On Good Friday Jesus was crucified.

On Easter Sunday he was resurrected.

So what did Jesus do on Saturday?

That question was posed at my house as we celebrated on Easter Sunday.

 

I heard a story recently about a local physician who every year on Good Friday, instead of the typical white lab coat look he normally wears, will put on a dark suit instead.  His patients, used to him looking medical like, would ask why he was wearing a suit, are you going to a wedding or going to a funeral?

“A funeral” he would answer.

“Well who died?”

“Jesus.”

This was his way of reminding people.

Kim and I went to church on Good Friday.  The service is always moving and somber.  It is, well, like a funeral.

 

When I was a kid growing up in New Jersey I didn’t go to church on Good Friday, only on Easter Sunday. After church, my parents would pack us all into the Corvair and we would make the drive north through Little Silver and Red Bank to the McDonald’s in Middletown.  This was one of the few times we would go out to eat at any restaurant so it was a real event.  Our Easter dinner would be hamburgers or cheeseburgers, French fries, and milk shakes because that is all they served back then.  You just drove up, parked, walked up to the window and got your food and ate it in the car.  No indoor playrooms or sitting at a table.  It was great.

Easter was also, other than maybe Christmas or the start of the new school year, one of the few times we got new clothes.  My sister would get a frilly dress and the rest of us little suits and maybe a hat.

In our new clothes, we would visit with the extended family and that was about it,  but it was always a nice day.

Easter traditions change.  The suits and hats are now replaced by Hawaiian shirts and khakis.  There is nothing really special about McDonald’s anymore so thankfully home cooking is a better option.  And they don’t make Corvairs anymore, maybe we should be thankful for that too.

 

I got up this past Saturday morning and did the usual; I paid a couple of bills and ran some errands.  Like other holidays, now that the kids are older, they have their own obligations so I was expecting to see them and feed them more in shifts this year and had to plan accordingly.

In the afternoon we did what we have always done this time of the year for the last almost 15 years, we took our dirt and our tools and some potted flowers and went up to the cemetery to plant new at Donny’s grave site.  Cameron helped this year getting the water and unloading the truck.

 

We cooked dinner on grill and then sat outside on the patio.   When it got a little later we put Cameron to bed.  Kim always says prayers with Cameron before bed and on this evening he thanked God for the nice day and for planting flowers for Uncle Donny.

He made a comment to Kim that Uncle Donny was “as tall as the world” or “taller than the world” and when she asked him to explain he just said that Uncle Donny “was in Heaven with Jesus.”

“Cameron how do you know that?” she asked.

“I just know” he said.

 

Church on Sunday was awesome.  To our surprise we had the whole local family with us at church and we filled a pew.  The preacher’s sermon was great.

Who will roll away the stone?  The question asked by Mary and Mary in Mark 16 verse 3 on their way to the tomb early on that Sunday morning.

The stone.

The stone of great weight blocking their way to Jesus in the tomb.

In our sermon the preacher explained that the stone represented all those hard times in our lives.  Those times of tragedy, divorce, loss of a job, an unexpected diagnosis.  All things tough.

It spoke to all of those sitting in my pew.

Just as I am sure it spoke to all of those in the pews surrounding me.

We all have had those stones.  Some have been heavier and harder to move than others. Many we still feel the weight of.

Sometimes we even plant flowers around them.

 

What did Jesus do on Saturday?

Maybe it was meant to be that way, to have that day in between.

Maybe Jesus, like us, needed a day of contemplation.

A day of reflection.

Maybe he was focusing on the weight of that stone and what was to be.

Maybe he was even starting to move that stone, as the world and life beyond it became clearer.

I think so.

How do I know?

“I just know.”

 

One of our heavier stones on the Saturday before Easter